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Liam McIlvaine, 22 months, died October 1st, 2013, with his parents by his side, at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia.  Liam was extremely strong; enduring many hospital stays and open heart surgeries in his battle with congenital heart defects.  Liam had a contagious smile and his parents were his very best friends.  He loved to cuddle with his mommy; and, his dad could make him laugh like no other.  His road ahead was fated to contain many more hospital stays, more open heart surgeries, and a lifetime of medical management.  We take comfort in knowing that Liam will no longer suffer.  We will now, and forever, have the most beautiful, strong and awesome guardian angel.   

Liam is survived by his parents, Chris and Jen (Coriale) McIlvaine; his grandparents, Ruthann McIlvaine, Doris and Henry Austin, Tom and Nancy Coriale; his great-grandmother, Donna Jacques; his aunts and uncles, Janeen Coriale, Lorie and Mike Christopher, Jill McIlvaine, Jon and Carey-Lynn McIlvaine; his godparents, Samantha (Ritchie) Taylor and Jeff McIlvaine; many great aunts and uncles, cousins, and friends who have become like family. Liam was greeted in heaven by his paternal grandfather, David McIlvaine; and great grandparents, Albert Jacques, Helen and Sam Coriale.
 
The family will receive Liam’s friends and family at Catholic Community of the Holy Spirit, 17 Earlington Avenue, Mullica Hill, NJ 08062 from 6-9pm on Sunday, October 6th and 9-10:00am on Monday, October 7th.  A mass will be held at the same location at 10:30am on Monday, October 7th.  In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting donations to be made in memory of Liam to The Cardiac Center at CHOP.  Donations can be made online at www.giftofchildhood.org  or checks, made payable to 'The Children's Hospital of Philadelphia Foundation' with 'In memory of Liam McIlvaine' written in the memo line, can be mailed to: The Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia Foundation - Lockbox #1352, P.O. Box 8500, Philadelphia, PA 19178-1352.

 

November 3, 2023
November 3, 2023
Happy 12th birthday! Enjoy your celebration in heaven with all your grandparents. You are a champion swimmer with the angels now. Keep watching over your Mom, Dad, and brothers. We miss you, but we know you are happy, healthy, and pain free now. Happy Birthday! ❤️
October 1, 2023
October 1, 2023
10 years have gone by since you started swimming in heaven. You live healthy, happy, and full of joy! You are greatly missed by your family here, but I’m sure you watch over them and enjoy seeing your brothers growing up. God Bless! Much love! Keep swimming! ❤️
November 4, 2022
November 4, 2022
Happy Birthday! Your number here is 11, but it isn't even counted where you are. By now you have learned to enjoy Grandma Coriale's spaghetti and PupPup Coriale makes you eat all the time. Grandpa Jacques keeps a big fish tank you like to examine at long length, and I bet Grandma Jacques has taken you bowling a few times. You must still be keeping watch on your Mom, Dad, and two brothers - they think about you all the time. Your brothers have been able to do many things that you didn't have a chance to try. But you are still swimming with the angels there and running free with no pain. You are always missed, but we know you are just a dream away.
November 3, 2022
November 3, 2022
Happy 11 in heaven! We had ice cream for dinner today to celebrate you and your birthday, which your brothers really enjoyed. The Phillies are playing in the World Series so I picture you watching the game and the silly Philly Phanatic with big smiles :) Happy Birthday! Love you buddy ~Just Keep Swimming~
October 1, 2022
October 1, 2022
Today I am in Ireland. Although it is bittersweet to be in the land of "Liams" on your angelversary, it is heartwarming to know that I am here to help babies in your honor. We miss you every single day. Your brothers think it's not fair that you cannot come home and are confused sometimes that they only see you as a 'rock' in person but we know that you are running, laughing, and having the best days in the sunshine listening to beautiful music. Miss you and love you ~Just Keep Swimming~
October 1, 2022
October 1, 2022
We don't know how nine years could have gone by so quickly. Your Great-Grandma Jacques has joined you since last year, so you have another Great Grandparent who plays with you and treats you special. Great Grandma Helen is probably cooking a pot of spaghetti sauce for you and Great Grandma Donna is baking a cake in your honor. You run so freely and enjoy swimming with the angels. We miss you and what you could have been here with us, but we know you are having so much fun now that you are healthy. Your Mom and Dad miss you and your brothers are told about you all the time. They all know you are watching over them and love them totally. Keep swimming with the angels! You are a miracle!
October 1, 2021
October 1, 2021
It is now eight years since you started swimming with the angels. You are enjoying paradise with Great-Grandma Helen and Great-GrandPupPup Sam. Your Mom and Dad think about you every day. You watch over them and your little brothers. We wish we could have had more time with you here, but you are healthy and happy in heaven! Much love! God Bless! Keep swimming!
November 3, 2020
November 3, 2020
Happy Happy heavenly birthday Liam David! I can’t believe you’d be 9! Miss you so very much. Love, Auntie Lorie
November 3, 2020
November 3, 2020
Happy Birthday to our angel boy! Blow out those 9 candles and enjoy your cake! Grandma Coriale is probably making you some spaghetti today and Grandpa Coriale stirred the sauce a few times! Keep watching over your Mom, Dad, and brothers. Have a great birthday!! ❤️
October 1, 2020
October 1, 2020
Another year has gone by but our memories of our miracle boy don’t fade. We had a special time celebrating at Aunt Samantha and Uncle Ryan’s wedding. You were so handsome that day all dressed up for the occasion! Now you are healthy and running across paradise! Keep swimming with the angels! ❤️
November 3, 2019
November 3, 2019
Happy Birthday, Liam! Do a good job of blowing out those 8 candles! Your Mom, Dad, Finn, and Cael, and all your family love you and think of you, especially on days like today. Enjoy being happy and healthy, and keep swimming with the angels!
October 1, 2019
October 1, 2019
6 years and not a day goes by that I don't think of our sweet angel and his amazing strength & smile....just keep swimming buddy
October 1, 2019
October 1, 2019
God bless you little Liam and Chris and Jen! I still think of you guys when I look up and see the adorable ceiling tiles that you painted. Many of my patients now love them too! I’m so touched to see the picture of Liam’s brothers and send my love! He will always be loved and remembered! From a loving 2B nurse!
October 1, 2019
October 1, 2019
Today marks 6 years since you started swimming with the angels. I know you are watching over your Mom, Dad, and brothers. You are missed and will be forever in our hearts. We are consoled knowing you are healthy and happy in heaven and have grandparents keeping you company. One day we will all be together again. Keep swimming!❤️
October 1, 2019
October 1, 2019
Thinking of you today my sweet nephew. We miss you so much! Keep watching over your brothers ❤️
November 3, 2018
November 3, 2018
Happy Birthday! Today you have 7 candles on your cake! You must be having so much fun swimming with the angels through heaven! You are healthy and happy there and playing with your grandparents. Bet you are watching over your Mom, Dad, and brothers Finn and Cael. Keep swimming! God Bless!
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
Another year has passed since you started swimming with the angels. Your Mom and Dad miss you and share the memory of you with your two younger brothers. Till we see you again... God Bless!
October 2, 2017
October 2, 2017
We love you so much little man and miss you dearly. I'm so proud to be your Godmomma.
October 2, 2017
October 2, 2017
Jen and Chris, Thinking of both of you at this time.  Your loss of Liam will always be in my heart. Your precious Liam is now a special angel in heaven as well as a memory in so many hearts. My thoughts are with you.  Love, Aunt Kathy
October 1, 2017
October 1, 2017
4years ago we had to say “We’ll see you again some time! Keep swimming with the angels!” We think of you and smile because you were so special. Grandma is surely making you lots of spaghetti there in heaven! Till we see you again, God Bless our Miracle Baby!
November 3, 2016
November 3, 2016
Happy happy 5th Birthday in heaven Liam! We all miss you so much. Xoxo Auntie Lorie
November 3, 2016
November 3, 2016
Happy Birthday! Celebrate in heaven in style! You have 5 candles to blow out today. Enjoy your cake and eat lots of Great Grandma's spaghetti. Keep swimming with the angels! God Bless!
October 5, 2016
October 5, 2016
I am sending birthday kisses to Liam and loving energy to everyone who is missing his little smiles. God bless the lives that have been touched by such a wonderful family.I think of you all often in the halls of 2B. From my heart, Nurse, Kim
October 4, 2016
October 4, 2016
Today a beautiful angel in heaven, with love etched in hearts of all who knew you. xo
Love, Aunt Kathy
November 3, 2015
November 3, 2015
Happy Birthday Angel Liam............................I have your picture, along with Finn's, and all your cousins on my desk at school. I love you.
Aunt Kathy
November 3, 2015
November 3, 2015
Happy Birthday to our little miracle angel!! Grandma Helen probably made you a cake, and you ate the whole thing!! Keep an eye on your Mom and Dad and baby brother Finn! God Bless!!
October 3, 2015
October 3, 2015
Liam you will now and forever be our most beautiful, strong, and awesome guardian angel. 
We will keep swimming for you and we will love you forever.
October 2, 2015
October 2, 2015
Jen & Chris,
The sadness of losing Liam and the blessing of Finn........ God wanted an angel to watch over your family.  What a brave little boy Liam!!
I love you.
Aunt Kathy
October 1, 2015
October 1, 2015
Love to our miracle baby in heaven! You have some special people there with you. Hope you are enjoying great grandma Helen's spaghetti! Watch over your mom and dad. Keep an eye on your little brother Finn! We miss you, but rejoice that you are now forever smiling, happy, and free of pain. Run, Liam, run!!
Aunt Janet and Uncle Rick
October 1, 2015
October 1, 2015
Liam is in heaven looking down and smiling and giving advice to his little brother. We love you, Liam. You will never be forgotten and will always be in our hearts and thoughts. Keep good guard over your brother, okay? Love you, Ann
November 3, 2014
November 3, 2014
Happy Birthday sweet angel! You are very missed but always remembered! Keep watching out for mommy and daddy and your sweet brother Finn. Until we meet again. Love you!!
November 3, 2014
November 3, 2014
Always in my heart, never forgotten. Happy Birthday Liam. I love you.
November 3, 2014
November 3, 2014
Happy 3rd Birthday, Liam! I know you are smiling down on Finn and your mom and dad. And I know you are so happy and healthy in heaven with Jesus. You are so missed, and will never be forgotten.
October 2, 2014
October 2, 2014
Jenn & Chris,
My prayers and thoughts have been with you the last two days. Your angel has touched so many lives in the short time he was here, and he left in my heart a special memory that will always be with me. I think of all of you every day. I love you.
Aunt Kathy
October 1, 2014
October 1, 2014
Dear Jen, Chris and Liam,
I think you all three of you every time I go to work. When I see the beautiful artwork Jen painted on our ceiling tiles (the transformer always being my favorite), when I hear the name Liam, and when I go into room 3 and when I drive by the child care center in the parking lot. Your beautiful family touch my soul and I will always remember. I pray for the best for you! With all of my love, Nurse Kim
October 1, 2014
October 1, 2014
Sweet Liam, a year has passed since you left us and yet sometimes it seems that you are still right here because you are in our hearts forever.

For you and your family and friends:

Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am I, and you are you. Whatever we were to each other that we still are.

Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way which you always used.

Put no difference in your tone, wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.

Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.

Let my name be ever the household word that it always was,
let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of shadow on it.

Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is unbroken continuity.

Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?

I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner.

All is well.


'Death is nothing at all' ~ Canon Henry Scott Holland of St. Paul's Cathedral
May 13, 2014
May 13, 2014
It was my intention to do this on Sunday, but we were traveling to visit Nancy and Tom...
This is YOUR special Mother's Day as well!
I will never forget, and you will always be Liam's mom while he is in heaven smiling down on you!
Much Respect and Love,
Ann
December 27, 2013
December 27, 2013
Blessed Christmas, Liam. We are down on earth celebrating the birth of Jesus and you are in His arms. Love and prayers continue for your whole family always.
November 3, 2013
November 3, 2013
The angles are haveing cake with Liam and so is PoP PoP Dave and haveing fun. And he has all of your love from his mom and dad that loves him very much RIP
November 3, 2013
November 3, 2013
Happy 2nd Birthday Liam!  It was nice to hear that Mommy and Daddy had lunch with you today. They love you very much. Thank you for all the cute pictures you gave to me during the first two years of your life.  You have etched a special place in my heart. Love, Great Aunt Kathy xxoo
November 3, 2013
November 3, 2013
Happy Birthday sweet Liam! Daddy and I had lunch with you today. It was a beautiful day-the leaves are all pretty colors now. All of your family and friends are wishing you a wonderful day. We are proud of you big boy. Enjoy your birthday cake with great grandma Helen. She is a great cook. Love you bunches!
November 3, 2013
November 3, 2013
Happy Birthday Liam! I know your up there with Pop Pop Dave having some cake! Xoxo
November 3, 2013
November 3, 2013
I read that today would have been Liam's second birthday. It saddens me to know that you are not preparing a party, baking a cake and wrapping presents. I only hope that you are able to celebrate his short life with wonderful memories of this sweet child who is now in heaven.
God bless you all and may He tenderly comfort you today and always.
October 22, 2013
October 22, 2013
I shared this sad story and link to all of the staff on 2B. We posted your story for all to see with same response... we are all so shocked and saddened by this precious soul's early departure. The pictures you selected told a wonderful story about two magnificant, patient and loving parents and thier special time with Liam. God Bless both of you, I will keep you in my heart.
October 20, 2013
October 20, 2013
Although I was never lucky enough to meet your precious Liam, I was blessed to watch him grow as you posted his amazing journey on FB. While my heart breaks for your loss, I too believe that your beautiful boy is now an angel and will be with you every moment. Sending you all of my love and prayers.
October 9, 2013
October 9, 2013
I just learned of the loss of your precious Liam. My heart is heavy with this news. Though his stay with us at Dupont was far from easy, it was always a pleasure taking care you Liam and both of you. Prayers for your entire family through this difficult time.
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November 3, 2023
November 3, 2023
Happy 12th birthday! Enjoy your celebration in heaven with all your grandparents. You are a champion swimmer with the angels now. Keep watching over your Mom, Dad, and brothers. We miss you, but we know you are happy, healthy, and pain free now. Happy Birthday! ❤️
October 1, 2023
October 1, 2023
10 years have gone by since you started swimming in heaven. You live healthy, happy, and full of joy! You are greatly missed by your family here, but I’m sure you watch over them and enjoy seeing your brothers growing up. God Bless! Much love! Keep swimming! ❤️
November 4, 2022
November 4, 2022
Happy Birthday! Your number here is 11, but it isn't even counted where you are. By now you have learned to enjoy Grandma Coriale's spaghetti and PupPup Coriale makes you eat all the time. Grandpa Jacques keeps a big fish tank you like to examine at long length, and I bet Grandma Jacques has taken you bowling a few times. You must still be keeping watch on your Mom, Dad, and two brothers - they think about you all the time. Your brothers have been able to do many things that you didn't have a chance to try. But you are still swimming with the angels there and running free with no pain. You are always missed, but we know you are just a dream away.
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December 27, 2013
Little Angels When God calls little children to dwell with Him above, We mortals sometime question the wisdom of His love. For no heartache compares with the death of one small child Who does so much to make our world, seem wonderful and mild. Perhaps God tires of calling the aged to his fold, So He picks a rosebud, before it can grow old. God knows how much we need them, and so He takes but few To make the land of Heaven more beautiful to view. Believing this is difficult still somehow we must try, The saddest word mankind knows will always be "Goodbye." So when a little child departs, we who are left behind Must realize God loves children. Angels are hard to find. (Author Unknown)
November 20, 2013
I'll never forget the first time I got to babysit Liam. My brother had to cut his hair and do some odds and ends around the house. I had Macklin with me and Liam wanted to be held and cuddled. So I was loving up on Liam while bouncing Macklin in Liam's bouncer. It was priceless and a memory I hold dear to my heart. Also, this summer we got to do many outings and BBQ's by the pool. No matter what we did Liam always had a smile on his face. I always loved how he would snuggle with you. Holding and biting his blankey. Miss you so much Little Guy! Keep sending us signs your around :)

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